It also helps me deal with the day to day stresses of being an adult. And it also helps me be more open and vulnerable with my partners. I truly trust my partners to a deeper level. People are drawn to age play dynamics and relationships because they work for them. Some littles use age play as a cathartic tool to heal from abuse; others enjoy the release of control; others just find it fun. Some bigs enjoy caretaking and world building; others are sadists who enjoy consensual SM.
Ultimately, whatever reason people feel called to a life in leather and a little identity, people tend to pathologize age players, suggesting that there is something wrong with people who enjoy BDSM. But, a study first published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine showed people who participated in BDSM were actually psychologically healthier and happier than the general population.
Even though age play is a part of the leather community, sometimes age players have struggled to fit into the larger community. Nik Mirage is a radical queer transboy switch who spoke with me about how important his little identity and little community are to him. Because when people think of dungeons, they think of heavy leather, rubber impact play, and sex. There are tonnes of scenarios where a little might actually be in charge:.
As with everything kink-related, there are no hard and fast rules. You decide what works for you. You decide your own level of involvement. The experience is solely about letting go of responsibility, relaxing, and having fun with a child-like mindset. Equally, however, ageplay can be a sexual thing. And that, quite understandably, makes some people uneasy.
It is something that only consenting adults may engage in, and which is separate entirely from age-based attraction and abuse. As an adult — so long as you do no harm to yourself or others — you can explore your fictional fantasies any way you wish. But what actually is it?
How do you do it? An ageplay session will often revolve around one or two activities — things that a little and a big can do together to have fun, relax, and explore their roleplay identities. Here are some ideas. Colouring in is apparently so much fun that even totally vanilla adults do it as a means of stress relief. Get yourself a colouring book and some crayons off Amazon and go ham.
Express yourself. Soar like an eagle. Ask your little what snacks they like. Trust me. Portraying any age can be the goal of ageplay, from babies, to the elderly.
Usually this involves someone pretending to be younger than they actually are, but more rarely can involve assuming an older role. We're doing our best to make sure our content is useful, accurate and safe. If by any chance you spot an inappropriate comment while navigating through our website please use this form to let us know, and we'll take care of it shortly.
Forgot your password? Retrieve it. If by any chance you spot an inappropriate image within your search results please use this form to let us know, and we'll take care of it shortly. Term » Definition. Word in Definition. Wiktionary 0. Freebase 0. How to pronounce ageplay? However, I would argue that beyond that, the most important part of defining AgePlay is for you to individually define what it means to you.
While there are pre-written definitions out there, I recommend creating a definition for age play that highlights what you do, a description of your Little self.
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